Most men already know something isn't working. The MIRF® maps it.

For men who've lost a role, a marriage, a person, or a direction — and need to see where things stand.

Around 10 minutes Private Personal report to your inbox

The Male Identity Reconstruction Framework® Assessment

Developed over a decade of mentoring practice, the MIRF® maps identity as five working parts. It gives men in transition a structured way to see which parts are still holding, and which are under load.

Learn more below

Five domains

We begin with this. Five parts of your identity we examine, to map where you are.

Why men take this

You are still functioning. You're also not sure who you are right now.

Most men who do this aren't in crisis. They are getting through the week. The cost shows up in disrupted sleep, poor decisions, and irritability.

  • Catching your reflection on the way out of a meeting and not recognising yourself.
  • The 4am wake-up that arrives before your eyes open
  • "Good mate, all good" before you've checked if it's true
  • A separation that is lonelier than you expected.
  • A redundancy that cost more than the job.
  • A role that still pays but has stopped meaning anything.
What you get

A 24-page report, written specifically to your answers.

Not a dashboard. Not a course. A personalised report you can read and return to as things shift. Plain language. Written to be used when you need it.

  • I.
    The clearest read of where you actually stand todayA two-page summary of your situation in plain language. Where pressure is sitting right now. Where you still have ground to stand on.
    P. 1–4
  • II.
    Each of the five domains, mapped to your responsesThree pages on every MIRF® domain in your specific situation. What is loaded. What still holds. One honest next step you can take this week.
    P. 5–19
  • III.
    A 90-day path that starts with what's still workingMost rebuilding fails when it starts at the loudest pain. This pathway starts where your capacity already holds, then builds outward from there.
    P. 22
  • IV.
    Three honest options for what to do nextNo funnel. Carry on alone with the report. Bring it to someone you trust. Or continue with David one to one. Each path written plainly, no upsell pressure.
    P. 23–24
FormatPDF, 24 pages
DeliveryUsually within 10 minutes of completion
PriceUSD $189, one-time
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David Kernohan David KernohanFounder · Mentoring Through the Maze®
About the mentor

Built by David Kernohan, mentor at Mentoring Through the Maze®.

David Kernohan works with men aged 30 to 55 carrying major life disruption.

He built the MIRF® framework over years of direct one-to-one mentoring practice.

He is not a therapist. He is a mentor, a role he has held for over a decade.

The assessment is built on David's experience working with men. It lets you map your own situation before you talk to anyone.

10+ YearsMentoring practice
5 DomainsMIRF® framework
Non-ClinicalMentor, not therapist
Men 30–55Primary cohort
Honest questions

What men usually want to know before they start.

If your question isn't here, write to David directly. This assessment isn't a funnel. Knowing what it does before you start is reasonable — and expected.

Is this therapy?

No. The assessment is a mentoring and self-reflection tool. It is not clinical. It does not diagnose, and it does not replace working with a psychologist, GP, or therapist. If you already work with one, the report is something you can read alongside that work.

What if I'm in crisis right now?

This assessment is not built for acute crisis. If you are in distress, please reach out to a qualified professional or crisis line first.

In Australia, Lifeline (13 11 14) is available 24/7. Outside Australia, please use the crisis support line for your country before taking the assessment.

How is my data handled?

Your answers are used to generate your report and are not used to train any AI model. No personal information is passed to the AI layer that drafts the report narrative. You can request deletion of your responses at any time by emailing David directly.

What if the report doesn't land for me?

If you take the assessment and believe it misses the mark, a refund may be provided after you have contacted David. Email david@mentoringthroughthemaze.com.au and tell him what was missed. He wants to understand why, so the assessment can be improved.

Do I have to book mentoring after?

No. The report stands on its own. It is built to be read, sat with, and worked through privately. Mentoring is offered at the end of the report for men who want it, but the report is the product.

Most men who take the assessment do not book mentoring, and that is the design.

Can I share the report with my partner, therapist, or a friend?

Yes. The report is yours. A number of men share it with a partner, a sibling, or a therapist they already work with. Others keep it private. Both are fine.

How long until the report arrives?

Usually within 10 minutes of completing the assessment. If something goes wrong on delivery, write to david@mentoringthroughthemaze.com.au and a copy will be sent within one business day.

When you're ready

About 10 minutes. A 24-page personal report you keep.

USD $189, one-time. Private. One sitting. No account required.